I've been thinking about the goals for this family for the new year. 2010 was an awesome year- we added a new addition to the family, our 2 older children grew and developed, went on two vacations, and did lots of fun things throughout the year together as a family, and in December we found out that 2011 will bring a new addition to the family! Can't get any better than that! Yes, the Wickers will grow by one hopefully in early August. A first for us, being due another month besides March. So far it has gone well. A few months ago, during the Summer, we felt God pushing us to give it all to Him. We weren't quite ready to add another member to the family just yet ( I mean I've been pregnant for 2 years in a row! :-) ), but we felt God saying that is should be in His time and not ours. So, we said "OK, your will is best so lets see what you have in store for us". Now remember Bradley and Austin were fertility babies ( IUI and IVF). We were about as infertile as they come before getting pregnant with the triplets. So, it still makes us laugh when we think we can get pregnant without the God-given technology. But, this family is proof that God can and does work miracles. And, God has definitely provided. It's just amazing how God provides and only gives you what you can handle! So, I have to praise God when I say this pregnancy has been easy considering past pregnancies, still some sickness but just enough to know that all is well with Baby Wicker. I love it not being a 100+ degrees like it always is when I'm at this point- since I'm always due in March, I go thru August and September very sick. So far no complications. The cerclage was left in after Cameron, so that shouldn't have to be messed with. My doctor is helping me work around Chris' schedule, so that Chris can keep the kids when I need to go to the doctor as it's hard to find childcare for 3 little ones so close together. My OB feels like, while I will be high risk, that everything should go well as it did with Cameron. I saw the heartbeat mid December, and it was such a CHRISTmas blessing. It truly magnified the reason for the season this year and showed us how awesome God continues to be. Some people think we're crazy, but we just think we're crazy blessed!
So, now that the "cat is out of the bag" you know our "To Do List" has just expanded tremendously and there is a little more urgency with some of it. It's all good though, no worries here and just give it to God! We've started organizing the house. We're cleaning out, and it feels so good. I just love doing things like that! Keeping life simple! I think going into 2010 we were hoping to move in the next couple of years, but now we've slowed down and realized that we should try to stay here and be thankful for what God has provided. So, we have plans to do some minor remodeling. We're hoping to make the small downstairs bedroom, now being used as a playroom, a mudroom. We have 2 other rooms that we can choose to move the playroom to, and they're both bigger than the current playroom. If we have a new mudroom, then I can use the old laundry room (which is more like a walk-in closet) for a pantry then the current pantry can be used as a broom closet for the vacuum, mop, and such! YAY! Love the idea, and I'm hoping we can get it done. We have a lot of unused space in the house, and that is just silly. We have a long "To Do List" for the inside and outside, but I'm sure everyone has the same. To give you an idea of what ours includes in addition to the remodeling: finishing the storage building, extending our deck, working on the front flower beds, painting the rooms in the house that still need to be painted, etc. Who knows when this will all get done, but it's nice to have something to work towards.
We did very well this past year following the Dave Ramsey plan of paying off debt. I'm not sure we will pay off our huge debts sooner (house and medical school loan), but we've begun to pay down and pay off some other things. And, we're going to continue to work on that. I think we may be halfway there. It sure does feel good, and I encourage everyone to read some of Ramsey's books too. We've cut back on spending, are eating at home more, and making lots of improvements in our financial decisions overall. We're still working on making life simpler and have gotten off to a great start. We feel God urging us to keep life simple, so that we can focus on HIM- so an organized, decluttered home; no debt; etc will help us work towards that. With 3 little ones, 4 and under, and one on they way it makes you keep life simple by staying so busy with the kids. It's a welcome busy though and so worth it. I welcome ideas as to how you keep God in your life, every minute of everyday and first. Chris and I are working on the book, The Purpose Driven Life. We're both reading the book and doing the study together. My personal goal is to read something out of the Bible everyday. I keep saying I'm going to read the entire Bible, but I've yet to actually do so. So, I really want to do that. The more I study the Bible and the word of God the more changes I make to myself and my life; it's a continued work in progress.
Here are some verses that I've found recently in my studies that I want to remember this year and focus on. They have a lot of meaning in my life right now.
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
For it is God's will that by doing right you should put to silence the ignorance of foolish men. 1 Peter 2:15
For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding. And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way, bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light. Colossians 1: 9-12
Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For everything in the world--the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does--comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever. 1 John 2:15-17
And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God. And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified. Romans 8:27-31
Also, Matthew 6 has a lot of things in it that I want to live my life by, just paraphrasing the important parts to me:
- don't be righteous in front of others
-don't announce it when you give to the needy, keep it secret
- praying is an intimate time with Jesus, many words doesn't mean you're heard more- God knows your what you need before you speak of it.
-forgive other's sins
- when you fast, do it with gladness and don't speak of it for God knows what you're doing and will reward you
-do not hoard materialistic things, do not worship money
- don't worry about money, clothes, food, or anything as God will provide all to those who trust fully in Him
Christmas Eve
(Yes, Cameron is forward facing with the approval of her pediatrician since she is so big and has great muscle control- it's helping not strain my back so much when taking her in and out of the car)
Ready for bed on Christmas Eve in their pj's
Wicker Family
Christmas Day
Our ABC's
All comfy on Christmas night
Cameron's 1st Snow
Cameron is 9 months old now. She is growing so well. At her 9 month well visit she was in the 95th percentile for her height, weight, and head which is great because it means she is in proportion. She is crawling some, but still rolls and does an army crawl a good bit to get where she wants quickly. Cameron is also pulling up some and cruising. Her favorite words are "Mama" and "Nana" which I think stands for "No No" because she hears that a lot with her brothers. Speaking of her brothers, she loves them very much and they love her almost too much (can be a little rough when loving on her). She is eating well and has started giving herself some of her bottles, but still prefers for us to do it. She takes abut 4 bottles a day which is right where they want her to be and eats 3 meals. She will eat baby food still, but prefers our food. The other night she enjoyed macaroni and cheese, green beans, and cooked carrots. Another night she had Chicken and Dumplings with Green Bean Casserole. I'm very impressed as I've never had another child eat this well. She had tubes placed in December after her ear drum perforated. So far, we don't notice any hearing loss, but she will have a hearing test at the ENT next month. The procedure was simple and easy, and we've seen much improvement in her since getting the infections cleared up after the tubes. Cameron is a great sleeper and still takes 2 good naps a day and sleeps through the night most nights. She loves to be swaddled in her blankie still with her paci and that is perfectly OK with us, because she self soothes so well. Our baby girl continues to be a happy baby and just goes with the flow.
Austin's 1st time in the snow
Austin is 25 months old. He continues to do well with his therapies and is progressing nicely. His therapists did an evaluation around his birthday. He is delayed in all areas from even his adjusted age, but it isn't by much (about 15-20% delay). However, at 2 they start to test them by their actual age because they expect him to catch up. There is quite a delay from his actual age (his birthday) in all areas including speech, motor skills, cognitive, to name a few. Communication is his biggest delay with almost a 50% delay. However, we are working on everything and they think he will catch up as he has started to decrease the gap. His speech is growing, and he has started to say a couple of phrases such as "My Do", Here you go", and "My Go". He is starting to talk more when others are around us which is part of the speech development. And, he is babbling more which is all very promising and exciting. He is stubborn though, so it can be quite a fight to get him to tell us what he wants. He gets aggravated too which is understandable, because he can't communicate as well as he'd like. A big help for us lately is that he is climbing up and down the stairs on his own! And, he wants to do it all by himself. Austin's isn't eating great, but on most days I do get one good meal in him. I'm trying to fortify his almond milk with calorie supplement at least once a day. We don't want to do it too often and keep him from eating. At his 2 year well visit he was in almost the 10th % ( a 1st as he has never been more than 3%), his weight still isn't on the chart but it's back on his curve, and his head stays in the 50% which is great bc it means his brain is growing well. Now we're trying discipline him more since he doesn't throw up all the time. I've had to be more creative when it comes to disciplining him as he is such a stubborn little boy, but that stubbornness is part of the reason he didn't give up when he was born. So, praise God for that! And, Austin hasn't been sick since his last hospital visit, so the Synagis and our restrictions must be working. We are so blessed that God has allowed us to continue to enjoy Austin here on Earth.
Bradley loved the snow and kept saying that it was going to snow on Christmas. Surprisingly it started just a few hours after Christmas ended. Wow! Now how did he know that? He continues to surprise us with what he does know. Bradley is saying that Baby Wicker is a girl and has correctly predicted all four of his siblings. Bradley is definitely the most independent one in the house these days. He is able to dress himself, sleeps all night, feed himself, go to the potty alone, etc. Sometimes he may need much encouragement with these things, but does well most of the time. Of course, the older and smarter he gets we have to continue to work on what are bad choices and what are good choices and he knows that consequences will follow the bad choices. We have been talking a lot about obedience and that God tells children to obey their mothers and fathers. He even gave Chris a little speech telling him to obey recently. He is such a loving child with such a kind heart which is quite a gift, and I pray he will use it very wisely. It was a very special time while he was out of school as we all enjoyed having Bradley home everyday for the holidays. Bradley continues to grow and thrive in all areas which is such a blessing to sit back and watch him soak up all of life's experiences. Bradley will turn 5 in early March and while he is excited to "grow-up" I'm having a little bit of trouble knowing that it's imminent. He is my oldest baby and has been such a blessing to us through good and bad times. I pray for continued wisdom in how to raise Bradley in knowing and loving God fully and keeping our family close as our children grow.
What can I say? I'm very blessed by all of my children. We did miss Brayden and Lexi this Christmas, but I know they were watching over us. I have no doubt they had a part in sending our family our special Christmas miracle gift, Baby Wicker. It was a wonderful present to Chris and me. I'm sure Lexi and Brayden had the most magical CHRISTmas celebrating with Jesus Christ. I can't even begin to imagine what all it entailed. Bradley, Austin, and Cameron are so special and I enjoy every moment with them. I definitely don't take my gifts for granted anytime of the year and just thoroughly enjoyed this CHRISTmas season with them. I can't wait to see what the New Year holds for our family.
Stay tuned for the Whereabouts of the Wickers!
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