tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24588400224840037792024-03-05T00:48:00.831-05:00Whereabouts of the WickersThe Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.comBlogger106125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-15394367297208954082013-06-14T07:51:00.000-04:002013-06-14T07:51:41.094-04:00<div style="-webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px;">
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" Romans 8:28</div>
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I love that verse. While things are not always easy, as God never promised it would be, He does promise to always care for us. Ultimately, that meant giving "his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." John 3:16. How absolutely awesome that He loved us so very much that he gave his only child for us? Could you do it? I'm not sure I could. I've lost children and have to say I don't ever want to go down that path again and pretty sure I couldn't do it so willing especially to suffer the way Jesus did. No matter how hard things may get in this wordly place our Heavenly Father is always there for us. </div>
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"He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless. Even youths will become weak and tired,</div>
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and young men will fall in exhaustion. But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength.</div>
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They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint." Isaiah 40:29-31 We are all far from perfect and weak by ourselves. And, we will eventually be unable to carry our burdens on our back. After our storm, in the Wicker Home, I came to realize that when man says "God won't give you more than you can handle" it's just untrue. God does and will give you more than you can handle and it's in those weakest moments that the truth is revealed to you... He does it because he wants us to fully rely on Him so that he can be our strength, our peace, and grace. He never will give you more than He can handle. Surrender fully to Him today. I know we (Chris and myself) are thankful for the journey we've been on because some people go their entire life and never see how much god truly loves us and will never see these things~ One, to understand the huge sacrifice he made for us. Two, to hear Him speak so loudly to you. And three, to watch him bear all of your burdens and the full weight of them on His shoulders. So, you can definitely say that Chris and I are grateful for the hard time we've been through. Just make the most of every moment, good and bad, or else you may miss some very important things He's trying to show and teach you. "Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thelossians 5:18</div>
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I write all of this with a very happy and content heart. Things our going very well in our family right now. I just feel the the first verse, from Romans speaks volumes for us. As God'smchildren we are not immune to storms, but we know that no matter what it will always be ok. We've just moved into our house we built. Everything with it went very well, it had its headaches, but what doesn't? God definitely has something in store for us here. I'm not sure what, but I can't wait to see as it was His will for us to be here. The kids are out of school for the summer, and I'm soaking every sweet moment of this up, even the crazy moments. I love having my children with me, and its even better when Chris is with us. We will be taking a beach vacation this summer that everyone is very excited about. We will also have vacation bible school at our church, swim lessons, pool time, Davis birthday, a camp or 2 for Bradley... And maybe another quick getaway towards the end of summer. And, not to mention, fun times with friends and family. Can't believe by summers end we will have Bradley, 7, starting 2nd grade; Austin, 4, will be entering 4 year old preschool (his last year:(); Cameron Grace, 3, will be beginning her first year of preschool in the 3's class, and Davis will be 2! Quick updates on all the kids...</div>
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Bradley finished first grade with a bang receiving the radiant reader award and the Good and Plenty award as he is full of great ideas. He excelled in all areas and received rave review for being a great leader. He's working hard on being an obedient follower of Christ and making good choices. He accepted Christ into his heart this past spring and understands he should strive to exhibit the fruits of the spirit. He's doing well in karate and showing a great understanding of moves etc. Austin did great in 3 year old preschool. His teachers doted on him and said what a thrill it was to have him in their class after praying for him for so long. The prayers worked wonderfully as he didn't miss a beat and keep up with all the other children. He is now 36 pounds and getting a little chunky which is absolutely amazing. He's a little fish in the pool this year and his swim teacher complimented his coordination for his age, having absolutely no idea of his medical history. Cameron Grace tries to keep all her brothers in line. She's the little Mama of the group. She sings and talks all the time. She loves being with friends, playing dress up, and going to church. When we moved in the new house she said she was ready for her big girl bed, so she has been sleeping in one for a few weeks now and such an obedient little girl and stays in her bed all night. In the mornings she gets up and comes downstairs, and often yells, "Mama where you at?" Lol it's so cute in her sweet, southern voice. She's been potty trained a few months. She did it in a couple of days with no issues and even stays dry during sleep. Davis keeps us on our toes. He's so sweet and reminds me so much of Bradley at this age, but he's into more than any of our other kids. He loves tractors, which has always been a favorite of Bradley's too. Davis transitioned well to the new house and seems to like his new room. He talks a lot and thinks he's as big as Bradley and keeps up with Austin and Bradley. I think Davis is our biggest kid yet, he's huge. He eats anything and everything just like Cameron Grace. Davis already strings together 3 or 4 words at a time. It's wonderful after having my last 2 delayed speech wise. </div>
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Everyone is growing so fast and doing great. It's wonderful to just be living life and enjoying the simple things. </div>
The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-52455722533076776612013-05-04T14:34:00.001-04:002013-05-04T14:34:20.733-04:00More Homemade cleaning . . .Dishwasher detergent<br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1 cup Borax<br style="box-sizing: border-box;" />1 cup washing soda<br style="box-sizing: border-box;" />1/2 cup Coarse Salt<br style="box-sizing: border-box;" />1/2 cup citric acid (Found with the canning products)<br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" />Mix all ingredients in a container. Use 1 tbs per load.<br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /> </span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Straight white vinegar works great as a rinse aide. I just fill my dispenser with it as needed.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Homemade liquid body soap</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">We've always used liquid body soap instead of bar bc it doesn't leave the hard to clean soap scum. I have trouble with eczema and dry skin normally, and its improved greatly since we started us</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1 cup of distiller water / boiled water</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1/4 liquid Castile soap (I've bought at target and whole foods in the soap section/ beauty section, all different scents available)</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1 tsp vegetable glycerin (food in target or Walmart in the food oil section) </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Hope everyone enjoys making your homemade goodies as much as we do. Saves money, is healthier, and the kids enjoy helping make everything. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Quick and crazy update, sorry its all over the place but let's you know a little about our what and whereabouts!</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">We're busy as usual in the Wicker household. We're closing at the end of the month on our new home and moving. Bradley's finishing first grade and Austin is finishing 3 year old preschool. Cameron Grace turned 3 in March and Davis is 21 months. They all love going to the new house and cry when we leave. They've been telling people everywhere about it. We have a family vacation planned next month to the beach. After vacation, all of us are participating in our church vacation bible school this year. We've planted vegetable seeds in pots, for a garden that we will transplant to the </span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">new home. It's been such a cool spring that we haven't been to pick strawberries yet, but plan to do that soon. We bought a couple of strawberry and blueberry bushes for the new house as well. Let me run, literally, to get in some exercise while the kids are napping. Chris just got off his bike, so it's my turn then onto packing! Living a blessed and simple life and so thankful for it!</span>The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-67084934194564166222012-12-31T23:08:00.002-05:002012-12-31T23:40:23.762-05:002012, The Year in Review<br />
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">It has been entirely too long since my last post. We 're living a blessed life. We continue to keep the focus on serving God, and it allows us to keep life simple. There have been lots of changes, new and exciting things going on in our household. We finally got the ok, in the spring, to return to church with Austin. It had been advised, by his physicians up until that point, to not have Austin in any childcare setting. His immune system is lower than the average child, and with his chronic lung disease it was feared that a common cold would send him to the hospital and that our time here with him could be short. (We still have to use caution when exposing him to animals and staying away from sick people. Those common things for most people could still cost Austin a lot of harm and a possible hospital stay.) So, finally we were allowed to go back and we returned to the Sunday school class that we used to be part of; it has been wonderful for us. We've been able to be very active in the class on Sundays as well as for get together and church during the week. Our family has thrived with this, and it has been wonderful to get that consistent spiritual encouragement from others.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">When you live second by second walking with the Lord you strive to exhibit HIS traits. Correct? Bradley and I often review the fruits of the spirit from Galatians 5:22-23: "But the fruit that the Spirit produces in a person’s life is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no such law against these things." If you have the spirit within you then your life should produce the fruits. We pray for The Lord to continue to show us His will and know that we must continue to trust in Him and He will give us peace and grace. It's just amazing to see what our Heavenly Father continues to do in our life. It's wonderful to watch and be so positive about every little thing. Truly, when Jesus is in your heart and you surrender to Him , to serve Him, you just can't help but have a joyful heart. We're surrounded by Godly people, and its such a wonderful experience. Godly people just smile so much more. Their eyes light up with this secret that they hold in their hearts knowing that Jesus died for the to have eternal life. They're encouraging, loving, and supportive. And, yet we still have Christ who loves us more and will never forsake us.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Looking at these great verses I found about walking with The Lord- the joy, peace, love and happiness it will bring you...</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">2 Samuel 7:28 O Sovereign LORD, you are God! Your words are trustworthy, and you have promised these good things to your servant.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Psalm 28:7 The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and I am helped. My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to him in song.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Psalm 37:3 Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Psalm 37:5-6 Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause like the noonday sun.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Psalm 84:12 O LORD Almighty, blessed is the man who trusts in you.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Psalm 86:2 Guard my life, for I am devoted to you. You are my God; save your servant who trusts in you.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Psalm 112:7 He will have no fear of bad news; his heart is steadfast, trusting in the LORD.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Proverbs 11:13 A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">John 14:1 Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Romans 15:13 May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">1 Corinthians 13:6-7 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;"> The kids are growing so fast. Bradley is in the first grade and thriving. He's in a new vertical program where they can go at their own pace for language arts. Reading is a favorite thing to do for Bradley and he logs about 500 minutes a month for his reading chart. His reading level is above that of where it should be, which absolutely thrills Chris and myself. What parent wouldn't want that?!?:) If the program goes well, then next year they plan to make math vertical as well. His teacher calls him a leader, giving, and helpful. Bradley has asked to take karate for years, so we finally started that at the end of the summer. He has graduated to his 3rd belt, which is orange with his karate instructor. Bradley loves being active in church and is continuing to grow in his walk with the Lord. He strives to always make the right choices and follow the fruits of the spirit. He can recite them and understands them well. I'm constantly told, by other adults, how well mannered he is. I've always strived to teach him these things and now he's old enough to model this in his daily life. I truly believe h e will bring many to know and love Jesus Christ. Austin turned FOUR on Thanksgiving and that amazes me. Our child that may never walk or talk does it exceptionally well these days. He's in preschool and has done great with the new endeavor. His immune system still doesn't handle it as well as we'd hoped, but he fights through each illness. We've had to do oral steroid treatments a good bit since the start of fall, but he's done much better over the past few weeks. So, hopefully his immunities are starting to kick in. Austin has grown exponentially over the last year, in our opinion. On his 3rd birthday he was 24 pounds, and he is currently 31 pounds! We haven't gone for his 4 year well check yet as the pediatrician decided recently with all the flu and other bad sicknesses going around that we should postpone his well visit until February. She said no point in risking his health. But he is almost filling out size 4 clothes. He's the oldest in his preschool class, so I guess you'd expect him to be one of the bigger kids and he's not but to our delight and joy he isn't the smallest which we did expect. He has grown, because we started him on an appetite stimulant a few months ago. He was not growing and finally the pulmonologist said we had to do something. I had heard about this one good medication and thats the one he suggested. So, we said lets try it and it's working! Austin participated in the little Christmas performance with his class that they do for the parents and sang and danced. Yes, I cried! (I cry when all my kids do stuff like that. FYI) Austin loves to sing and dance. He has the ability to memorize all songs and even movies and often goes around repeating the whole thing, especially when watching it. Got to get that on camera! Cameron Grace will be 3 in March. She still eats and sleeps like a champ. She loves to help me with laundry, cooking, and cleaning. I'm so blessed to be able to experience raising both sexes. I'm so very thankful for that. Cameron's favorite colors are pink and purple. "Hot pink" is her favorite though. She cracks me up with things like that... Where did she get that?!?! She is such a little Mama and helps with everything. She enjoys going to church too. She has learned so much about Baby Jesus and tells us all about him often. Cameron Grace also likes to sing and dance too. She is already in love with our new house. She insisted on going upstairs as soon as the stairs were in to see "my room". At just 2 years old I'm just amazed with how much she already knows and understands. And, when we went downstairs she said, "bye room, bye. I love you" and blew kisses! Ha ha. She loves her baby cousin who was born in July. She begs to hold him and love on him. And, in case you're wondering. She has asked to be called "Cameron Grace" and since we think its a beautiful name we oblige. All girl! ( she does like playing with cars though:)) Davis is walking and talking. He's growing so fast! People ask if the 3 little ones are triplets; that's a little bittersweet. Davis is a wild man and thinks he is as big as everyone else. He does everything the others are doing such as singing and dancing. I'm soaking up every bit of the baby stages that are slipping away too quickly... Some days they are flying by when he does things like refuses to be carried, because he wants to run after his older siblings. By spring I'm sure he will actually be running! He tries all kinds of foods, and his most often used words are cookie and cracker. He is already starting to string together 2 words. His speech reminds me of how Bradley's was at this age, so if that continues he may surpass Cameron Grace if she doesn't watch out. (Her speech is coming along nicely too) Davis does best at church when he's with everyone, but he has gotten a lot better in nursery now that he's waking. Walking has made him happier all around just like his older brothers. He also gives the sweetest hugs and kisses.</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Other Wicker whereabouts . . . We sold our home and moved during the summer to a house that we are renting while we build a new home. The new house is coming along nicely. We designed it specifically for our family. It's the same square footage as the old house, but it works much better for us. Less formal space, because that isn't "us" at all. Things such as a laundry ROOM and not closet, walk in pantry, and drop zone will help this family of 6 run more smoothly. With 4 kids we have lots of laundry, food, and "things" that need homes. I can't wait to get organized again, because there isn't much of that going on in the rental house. We can't wait to share it with our family and friends. We continue to spend lots of time in the new neighborhood having picnics, walks, and playing with old and new friends. The kids love it there. Cameron Grace begs to see the new house... She loves being outdoors, well all the kids do, and we spend so much time outdoors there. Chris' job is keeping him busy. I hate to call it a job, because its really more of a lifestyle. It's way more than a job. It takes a lot of commitment from him. It's never just a weekday, 9 to 5 job. It doesn't include breaks, lunch breaks, nor always weekends and holidays off. It requires commitment from me as well. There are long hours of running solo with our crew. The kids are learning that if someone is sick Daddy has to go help them instead of staying home with us. It's good for them to know that there is a world beyond them. God definitely led Chris to this career, and I see it more and more the longer he practices. We took a few trips this year. We went to Isle of Palms in June, and it was great. We had a few different friends come visit us while we were there for the week. We ate great food, enjoyed afternoons by the pool, walked to get ice cream, spent long hours on the beach, and just enjoyed being together as a family. In August, we went to Pigeon Forge with Papa and Nanny Wicker. It was such a nice end of the summer treat and break away from the heat of the Midlands. We enjoyed the aquarium, bear exhibit, and this cool parrot place while eating lots of yummy food and spending family time together. We can't wait for our trip next year with them. A few days before Labor Day weekend Chris and I decided last minute to pack up the kids and surprise them with a trip to Great Wolf Lodge in Charlotte. It was absolutely awesome. We were just there one night, but it was magical. We ALL loved it. The water park is great fun, then there is the mini bowling alley, arcade, and craft area. And, even the food is fabulous. We highly recommend it for a night or 2 away . . . So much so that we decided to take Austin back for his 4th birthday. His birthday was onThanksgiving this year and truthfully both of those days are bittersweet because of Brayden and Lexi, so we decided to just do something extra special this year. We extended an invitation to our family to go with, so my parents and The Wickers packed up and got their own rooms and celebrated with us. Another fun trip! Chris and I said perhaps we should go away every Thanksgiving. We took our normal trips this year to pick strawberries and apples a couple times each. Chris and I celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary and 17 years together! Wow! Davis followed our family tradition and was baptized on Mothers Day. All 6 of our lives have been dedicated to our Heavenly Father on Mother's Day. Bradley's 6th birthday was celebrated at the bowing alley with an Angry Bird theme. Cameron Graces 2nd birthday was an ice cream social complete with an ice cream buffet. Davis' big number ONE was a pool party with snow cones provided by Kona Ice. And, Austin got his monster truck cake as he wished at Great Wolf. </span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">It has been a great year. I can't believe that 2012 will come to a close in a few short hours. I pray for my family in 2013 as I always do. I pray for us to continue to serve The Lord first. I pray that we seek His will in all we do, big and small, and continue to grow in our walk with Him. I pray for our well-being and health. This time next year I pray that I'm able to reflect on the year warmly and with a heart full of joy as I am right now about 2012. I can't believe this time next year I will have a 7 year old son, 5 year old son, 3 year old daughter, and 2 year old son. How incredibly blessed!</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">I look forward to what the new year will bring to our family. I know it will hold many sweet memories. Thank you for catching up with us. I hope to post more often, after all this is such a great way to remember this most special season of our life. I pray for all our friends and family to have a wonderful New Year. May God bless you!</span></em></div>
The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-52985093178829731132012-12-11T08:23:00.000-05:002012-12-11T08:23:12.060-05:00Homemade goodnessI've been making my own laundry detergent for about a year, and it's been great. Saved lots of money, no skin issues, works with HE and regular washers, smells good, and exposes us to less unnecessary chemicals. Have you ever read the labels on things such as this and wondered how much of it your body was absorbing???? Yuck. So, I was asked to share the recipes. Here you go: <br />
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1/3 bar of Fels-Naptha, grated ( I use 1/2 bar instead for extra scent)<br />
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½ cup washing soda (found in the laundry aisle in most stores - Arm & Hammer makes it)<br />
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½ cup borax powder (also in the laundry aisle - look for "20 Mule Team" brand)<br />
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Put the grated soap in a sauce pan. Add 6 cups water and heat it
until the soap melts. Add the washing soda and the borax and stir until
it is dissolved. Remove from heat. Pour 4 cups hot water into the
bucket. Now add your soap mixture and stir. Now add 1 gallon plus 6 cups
of water and stir. I pour immediately into my containers. Let the soap
sit for ab an hr and it will gel. You use ½ cup per load.<br />
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Fyi: This soap does not foam, so don't be surprised when you first
use it. Also, if you want more scent just use your favorite essential
oil. I don't use any bc of using more of bar soap. I've found all things
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So, since I had such success with the laundry detergent I recently researched and made my first batch of fabric softener. I've been using it for about a month and it's great. I do use the essential oils for this to make the vinegar smell not so strong which the vinegar smell does go away with wash regardless. My favorite essential oils are orange and lemon. </div>
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<span>Fabric softener :<br />
1 cup baking soda<br />
6 cups white vinegar<br />
1 cup of water<br />
10 -15 drops of essential oil of your choice. I like orange or lemon<br />
a bucket<br />
wooden spoon<br />
* Add the baking soda to the bucket<br />
* Add the water to the baking soda in the bucket<br />
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the vinegar to the bucket, take care though as it’s going to bubble up like a 5th grade paper-maché volcano<br />
* When all of the vinegar is added to the baking soda and has
settled, stir it a bit so that the majority of the baking soda
dissolves.<br />
* Get a large empty plastic bottle and pour the vinegar/ baking soda/ water brew into it, add the essential oils.<br />
Use 1/4-1/3 cup of mixture per load of laundry.<br />
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PS. I've been working on a new post of our whereabouts so check back soon for that. Gotta get thru Christmas cards and shopping first. :-)</span></div>
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<span class="UIActionLinks UIActionLinks_bottom" data-ft="{"tn":"=","type":20}"><span><a class="UFILikeLink" data-ft="{"tn":">"}" href="http://www.facebook.com/notes/lisa-hawkins-wicker/laundry-detergent-recipe/10152354663605691#" id=".reactRoot[245]" title="Like this item"><span id=".reactRoot[245]."></span></a></span></span>The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-79596550059106890472012-05-22T12:12:00.000-04:002012-05-22T12:12:50.602-04:00Bad, bad blogger! Part 2I'm sorry I've been neglecting the blog, but I've been busy just enjoying our blessings. Life is great; absolutely no complaints. I've got to do better documenting this precious season in life, because I know these memories will be so appreciated when my babies are older. What joy they bring to us. I just can't say that enough. The simple things are absolutely the best . . . an afternoon outside in the sprinklers, a picnic, giggles, and so many sweet moments are what life is all about. <br />
The Wicker Alphabet is thriving and doing very well. I'll catch up soon, but in the meantime I think I'm going to take this blog private to protect my family. I know there are a lot of brothers and sisters in Christ, that we don't know, that read this blog and I will continue to allow that. I just want to guard against the others evil in this world and this is one way I may be able to do so. God has laid it on my heart and made me aware that the Devil is out there. So, please start emailing me if you want to be added to be allowed to read the blog. I covet all of your prayers for our family, and I want to be able to keep you all updated on our whereabouts. So, please email me: <a href="mailto:LHWicker@windstream.net">LHWicker@windstream.net</a> You will just have to sign into google, which is free and easy, then it will allow you to have access to our site. I have some other friends that have done this and there have been no issues. You may also contact me on Facebook to gain access. (Lisa Hawkins Wicker). Thanks so much and prayers all is well with you!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-58103913543836555182012-02-24T22:55:00.000-05:002012-02-24T22:55:10.568-05:00My AustinMy Austin, my Austin . . . that kid keeps us on our toes. First he was sick as I posted last time which it took forever for him to get rid of that junk, but it's finally gone. Then, all the testing, but everything came back ok- no cystic fibrosis or kidney issues as suspected, just low protein. So, he is being referred to a nutritionist. And, there was talk about going to an endocrinologist if nothing was found with all the testing so I'm not sure about that yet. <br />
So, the bottom line is he has to grow. To avoid a feeding tube we are praying that he grows before the doctors start to pressure us with that. So, I'm praying for 5 pounds. That would put him on the low end of average for a 3 year old. Austin has never been on the growth charts for his age for length or weight, so we'd love to see that. So, I'm asking God to specifically let Austin gain FIVE pounds. That would be huge! I believe God can do that, and if I keep feeling this need for 5 pounds then there must be a reason- God must be placing that in my heart for a reason. I'm feeding Austin all day long and anything he wants. That is what the doctors have said to do, no matter how high in sugar or fat- just get the calories anyway possible. He was a little under 25 pounds before his surgery, so 25 is the starting point. And, this week he hit 26.4 pounds- the most he has ever weighed! Yay! He needs to stay well too, because every time he gets sick he loses weight. <br />
Tonight Austin is having another sleep study done. And, I'm asking for prayers that he does well and there are no signs of sleep apnea. We still suspect sleep apnea, but know God is in charge of this. His sleep is still off even with his tonsils being removed. He is up on and off all night and if he naps then he stays up very late at night. And, children his age should be napping still. Sometimes he just falls asleep where ever he is and he shouldn't do that. And, then he is very hard to wake. <br />
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So, I'm asking for prayers. . . for Austin to gain 5 pounds, for Austin to not show any apnea, and for Austin to stay well. Please join me in praying for my sweet Austin. We continue to be amazed by all of his accomplisments and love how happy he is. . . he is such a special child and I want him to be well. He is worth every moment of worry and anxiety that he has caused us. God conintues to give us strength and knowledge as to how to best for care for him, and we're so grateful. God's peace is one of the things I'm most grateful for . .. on the days when we get bad news about Austin or they start to talk about things that are possible wrong, I get upset, but then I go to sleep and over night God takes away all of that worry and anxiety AND the next day is better. It's amazing and something I'm so thankful for. God is good all the time!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-33315829960433566102012-02-13T21:29:00.001-05:002012-02-19T11:49:33.354-05:00Bad, busy blogger!Ok, ok. I'm admitting to being a bad blogger, but we've been busy around here. I mean we do have FOUR children- cut me some slack please! :-)<br />
We've been busy with daily life, normal things. We have spent lots of afternoons outside enjoying our very warm winter. It has been gorgeous and has given us spring fever. The kids love being outside, and we've taken many walks once Daddy gets home and often stop to play at our neighborhood park or the play set in our backyard afterwards. <br />
I've been leading the produce co-op which has been named Third Day Harvest, because God created vegetation on Earth on the 3rd day in Genesis. We've had 2 deliveries and have had much success. There are 24 happy families involved so far. Chris and I have also been making all of our bread products- everything from hot dog and hamburger buns to cinnamon buns to loafs of bread. It's delicious! We're slowly cutting out as much processed foods as possible.It's isn't too hard, but does take up more time than normal. <br />
The kids have been sick. Austin was taken to the emergency room a couple of weeks ago due to issues breathing and was diagnosed with viral pneumonia. Then, the crud slowly made its way around our home. Bradley shook it off like a pro while Cameron and Davis only developed sinus infections due to it- yeah, Austin always gets it worse than everyone. His immune system is just not doing as well as the doctors expected it to. He still has a cough, but no more steroids or breathing treatments thankfully. We went to see the pediatrician for a follow-up from that and to check his growth after his tonsillectomy in December. And, she wasn't happy because he still isn't growing which normally happens right away. He isn't sleeping better either. So, we will be going for another sleep study in a couple of weeks, and she scheduled him for a few tests with the diagnosis of failure to thrive. That did hit us pretty hard, because basically we don't know what else to do- BUT the bottom line is that he is happy (thank you Sarah for reminding me of that- oh yes and my dear friend, Sarah, is recovering well and found out today that she won't have to do any chemo nor radiation!!! praise God- she will have to take a medication for 5 years- so many prayers her way still and as she continues on her road to recovery and reconstruction). So, Austin is happy and for that we just can't ask much more. We found out today that he doesn't have Cystic Fibrosis which was suspected by both his pediatrician and ENT. There were some other tests run that we don't know the results of yet. So, please be praying for him. Bradley had his tonsils out in January and did great with it, and Cameron had her adenoids out last week and is recovering well so far. Bradley is also doing well in school and continues to get smiley faces everyday! He has never brought home anything less- yay! That's my boy! Austin is signed up for preschool next year . . . that brings some anxiety but trying to give it all to God! His doctors have okayed it, so lots of prayers. He will go on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9-12. Cameron is talking more and more. She spends her time chasing after her brothers and loving on them. Davis is rolling everywhere, and he is fast! He is sitting up pretty well too, but he moves so much that he still can't stay up consistently. He loves all foods that we've tried, and was in the 95% for his height and 80% for his weight at his 6 month well visit (he wore an 18 month outfit today- wow!- he is just so long). <br />
Less than 4 months to our beach trip, and we're growing more and more excited everyday. But before the beach we will have some fun celebrations. Bradley will turn 6 next month and Cameron will turn 2. Bradley's party has been very easy to plan as he wants it at the bowling center where he had it last year and wants an Angry Bird cake. He has already told me what he wants for his present as well. Can't get any easier than that. Cameron on the other hand we know exactly what to get her, but can't decide between all the cute girly themes. She loves pink and Minnie Mouse, so considering that. There are also some cute ice cream and cupcake themes as well which she gets excited about both. We did the Sweet Shoppe theme last year and used candy and cupcakes, so not sure we should do that again. We also thought last year about doing an Egg Hunt, but then Easter was late last year. Decisions, decisions! Davis will be baptized this Mothers' Day as it is a family tradition. Just to remind everyone Chris, myself, Bradley, Austin, and Cameron have all been baptized on Mother's Day. Chris was baptized when he was older, because he grew up Baptist. I was baptized as an infant and confirmed when I was 13 since I grew up in an United Methodist church. <br />
So, just quick updates as I really don't have time for anything else these days. Between the kids, keeping the house straight and clean since it's on the market (and kinda have to do it anyway), cooking, and laundry I already stay up till midnight or later trying to maintain everything else.<br />
<br />The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-90546759200657838682012-01-10T22:20:00.000-05:002012-01-10T22:20:46.068-05:00A little bit of this and a little bit of thatSo, I know I'm very slack with blogs these days. Life is busy! Even though we try to keep it simple, having 4 children 5 and under keeps us going. <br />
Just going to briefly, and please excuse any grammatical errors, give quick little updates. Forgive me if I repeat myself as I can't even remember what I've posted about lately! :-) Wow, life is crazy but oh so blessed!<br />
As you know we're constantly trying to improve ourselves in the Wicker Household. We make a huge effort to include God in every minute of every day, because that is what matters most. Then, we concentrate on our family and friends- loving others. Just before Christmas, a friend of mine, Sarah found out she had breast cancer. I have to admit I was devastated, and I think about her and pray for her EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. I didn't meet Sarah until after I had Bradley, but we met through Bible Study where I also met some other great life long friends. Sarah and her husband, Chad, have 2 precious twin girls Bradley's age. One of them is in Bradley's class. Sarah has been a wonderful friend to me. We met right before I started going through fertility treatments and connected through our stories of that as she had been down that road too. She was there through the triplets pregnancy, came to see me in the hospital, and came to visit Austin throughout his NICU stay. Not all of my friends or even family could handle that hard time in my life like Sarah did. While we don't talk as often as I'd like, nor see each other much, she is still a special person in my life and I love her for always being here for my family and me. She definitely holds a special place in my heart! So, at just 36 it was hard to believe her cancer diagnosis- she is too young for this in my opinion. However, she is remaining positive and upbeat. And, I'm just amazed by her . . . by GOD! She is a believer, and says God has given her peace. She is handling this diagnosis with such strength and grace- no doubt that is God working in and through her. So, next Wednesday she is is having a double mastectomy and I want all of you to please be praying for her and her family. Pray for her surgeon and the doctors that will be working on her case. Pray for the test results, after the surgery, to come back showing that the surgery got everything. She wants to ensure with the mastectomy that she will be around for 50+ more years, so pray for her peace about that as well. Pray for her strength, for her family to cope well as she is recovering, and for God to cover them in His protection. Just pray, pray, pray in anyway that God places it on your heart to pray. <br />
So, Sarah doesn't have any risk factors, no family history, eats healthy, and doesn't have any bad habits. It just blows my mind. This has led me to think about each little thing that my family consumes and other things we can do to try to be as healthy as possible. Thus leading to me start up a produce co-op. I've been interested in starting one for awhile and even participated in one last spring and summer- and it was great. This one will be through a local produce company, Senn Brothers, based out at the Farmer's Market. I've found 17 other families to participate. I will order the produce every other week and it will be delivered on Fridays biweekly. Then, I will sort the items and everyone will come pick them up in the next day. We will be getting good quality items for cheaper prices than the grocery stores offer. I'm very excited about it. I'm also trying to decrease the amount of processed foods we consume and eat more fruits, veggies, and healthy proteins. I'm hoping this will help us stay healthy, fit, and be good on the pocketbook too. I'm also thinking about making my own laundry and dish detergent as well. It's pretty interesting how God is planting these seeds, because at the same time as all of these thoughts to keep my family healthy were going through my mind a friend posted recipes to the detergents on Facebook. Crazy huh?!?! The more simple life is the more we can focus on THE word of the Lord right? Another friend is checking into buying meat in bulk too to see if we can get a better price on lean meats. <br />
We do have our house on the market, but we are just taking that one day at a time. The end result to be in a very family oriented neighborhood with lots to do as a family makes any aggravation more bearable as well as getting into a house that better suites our family and doesn't have wasted space. Obviously this isn't a busy time of the year in real estate, so we know it may take a few months for things to pickup. We have had a few people come and see the house and have gotten great feedback so far. <br />
Bradley is having his tonsils and adenoids removed this Friday as I posted before, so please keep him in your prayers. <br />
We've planned a family vacation this summer to Isle of Palms and are so excited. We're going with Chris' sister and her family, so I'm sure that will make it extra fun to have others to hangout with- we all like to do the same things and eat lots of good while on vacation. The countdown is on . . .less than 5 months! Yay! That also means I've got less than 5 months to get this body in shape- what a work in progress after birthing 6 kids, but I'll keep working at it. Exercise makes me a better person all around especially a better wife and mom. <br />
Also, please be praying for us as we plan to return to church after RSV season (mid March). The doctors have given Austin the ok to go into church nursery as well as register him for preschool next year. They said it's ok to see how he does and try it. Pray for God to grant us peace and keep Austin well as well as the whole family! I'm very excited about this too, and I'm going to be starting a 4 week Bible Study tomorrow too. My 1st group study since I got pregnant with the triplets. It's about learning how to teach others about God which is very cool.<br />
So, sorry this is so quick and all over the place- BUT the main reason for the post was to ask for prayers for Sarah. Thank you all so much!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-71885603954221079692011-12-29T14:34:00.000-05:002011-12-29T14:34:15.271-05:00Frequent flyer miles at the ENT????Austin came through well with his tonsillectomy (and adenoidectomy). He is almost 3 weeks out from surgery, so we are past the most critical point. Praise God! He did have trouble with his SATS immediately after surgery, but they just kept him a few hours longer and he evened out as the anesthesia wore off. He has always done that. He had his follow-up with the ENT last week, and the ENT said that his sleep should have already improved. Unfortunately it really hasn't. He gave Austin 2 months to recover and if no better then we'll repeat the sleep study to see if he is still having apnea. If so, then I'm not sure what that means or what next. Praying that he starts to improve a lot now. God can make miracles happen as we know, so please be praying that his sleep improves drastically, that he begins to eat and grows great, and stays well! Austin is old enough that he should really start to catch up in all aspects of his life, so we want to see this happen for him. We want Austin to be the best Austin possible, so please be praying!<br />
All 4 kids were actually seen at the ENT last week . . . we need frequent flyer miles there or something! Bradley was seen, because the ENT had asked about the other kids at one point and we had told him that Bradley snores and sleeps a lot. So, he said that he needed to be seen suspecting some sleep apnea. He asked some questions about Bradley's sleep and examined him and said that his tonsils and adenoids need to be removed. They're huge, so we're going to do that on January 13th. I'm hopeful that Bradley sleeps so restlessly that he is bothering Austin, and that we'll see an improvement in both big boys after Bradley's surgery. Bradley will be out of school 7-10 days. Then, Cameron was seen because she is having recurring sinus infections. It's constant, but she is refluxing out of her nose again (she did this as a younger baby when they ruled out that she had a cleft palate after having a procedure done in the office). So, the doctor said we need to get the reflux under control for a couple of months before we consider removing her adenoids. She just keeps a yucky runny nose and always rubs her eyes and face like they hurt. And, last Davis had his hearing checked and a follow-up from having tubes. And, all looked great with him. He hasn't been on antibiotics in 3 weeks- yay. He stayed on them from 3 months until his tubes were placed 3 weeks ago. Tubes are amazing. <br />
We were there a loooonng time, and I wasn't sure I was going to make it- BUT we did only by the grace of God. I'm working on Christmas pictures now. We got some great ones, and I'm so excited. It isn't an easy task with 4 kids, and they may not all be smiling, but as long as no one is crying that is pretty impressive. Hope that post will follow soon!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-9918578886839605732011-12-05T00:11:00.000-05:002011-12-05T00:11:04.673-05:00Awesome AustinSo, as many of you know our Austin turned 3 last month. I still can't believe it! Wow! Of course it makes it harder to believe since he is so small. He is truly a perpetual baby. I believe most people think he is 1 since they think him and Cameron are twins. I don't mind it though, because one day he WILL grow up and I'll miss this so much- although I'm sure in my eyes he will always be our special miracle baby. How can you possibly forget all that he has overcome? <br />
So, there is one more thing that Austin has to overcome. We've been waiting for him to turn 3, because for a LONG time his tonsils have been causing major issues. He continues to develop tonsillitis, a throat infection, that requires antibiotics all the time. His huge tonsil may also attribute to his small size as they have caused him to gag often which sometimes leads to vomiting. It can also curve his appetite and make him not want to eat. However, the ENT refused to think about removing them until he turned 3 and then said he must have a sleep study before he thought of doing anything about it. The surgery can be risky and carries a risk of bleeding for about 2 weeks afterwards - and of course just Austin being small and his history carries risks in itself. . . there aren't a whole lot of 23 pound three year olds! So, I've been a little unsure of the surgery, but knew that we had to do the sleep study as enlarged tonsils can cause obstructive sleep apnea. I prayed that he'd be fine and not have any apnea, however his sleep has been awful for as long as we remember and has grown increasingly worse. So, the doctors suspected that apnea was causing the issues. Austin may get up anywhere from 3 to 10 times a night! So, he had his sleep study a couple of weeks ago and it came back showing that he has severe sleep apnea. He has 15+ episodes an hour, and in 7 hours of his sleep study he had 115 events. So, there is no choice but to take out his tonsils (and they will remove his adenoids as well). His surgery is this Friday morning, the 9th. He is scheduled to have it as outpatient at LMC, and if there are issues then he can be transferred to Richland to stay overnight. He has just finished a round of antibiotics, in the last week, for another infection. And, over the last few days his gagging has grown worse and he is vomiting again- so we KNOW that he really need this surgery for multiple reasons. <br />
So, I'm asking that everyone pray hard that there are no issues with anything involving the surgery. The last time Austin was put on the ventilator, for a surgery, he had some issues and had to stay in the PICU overnight. BUT, he was much younger. Pray that he can eat enough to not loose weight during the first couple of weeks after surgery when he will be especially uncomfortable- he can't spare any weight loss. Pray that there are no issues with bleeding. Pray that Chris and I have peace about this and that God works in and through the wonderful doctor. This doctor removed Chris' tonsils and has also done tubes on Austin and Bradley, so we know him well- AND Davis is going to him for tubes soon as well. Pray that Austin's lung disease causes no issues as well. So, just pray for our baby, pray anyway God leads you, and we'll let everyone know as soon as we can how he does. <br />
He is so absolutely precious, as all of our children are, and I just thank God that we've been allowed to have him here for this long. I'm convinced that God has big things planned for that little boy(what big plans he has already had for him in his 3 short years) and that we will get to see him grow into a fine young man. <br />
Thank you all for our prayers in advance and hope everyone has a truly blessed week!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-13499775303153731902011-11-10T16:37:00.002-05:002011-11-10T20:41:41.431-05:00NovemberIt's November. It has been 3 years, some days 3 LONG years and some days it seems as though it was only yesterday. When I think about how long it has been since those 3 sweet babies were inside of me, alive and well, it doesn't even seem real. . . kinda wondered if I dreamed it all? Were we really expecting triplets? Did God bless us with 3 children all at once? <br />
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Thank God one of those precious miracle is still with us to love on each and every second of every day- and I do mean every second because he doesn't sleep - it's really weird- but nevertheless I can't help but be grateful that I can love on him 24-7. He often comes to our bed during the night and we find him sleeping soundly between us, and it's so hard to take him back to his bed sometimes. I always seem to quickly be able to remember those raw emotions of his time in the NICU and just praying that he'd make it and live. We'd see that he was doing truly remarkable for his gestational age despite the daily too often scares, but it was so hard to believe that we'd actually get to watch him grow up. And, now we're doing just that. Austin needs to grow a little better (he was only 22 pounds 14 ounces at the dr a few weeks ago), but we just can't help to be grateful that he is here, his tiny self and all. <br />
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November is a time when others remember what they're grateful for as they celebrate the holiday Thanksgiving. We are truly grateful for our life as a family. Our 6 children mean more to my husband and me than we will ever be able to put into words. I could spend everyday stating something else that I'm thankful for when it comes to mothering these 4 babies. I'd be lying though if I didn't say that at the same time my heart yearns to mother my other 2 children. I will always and forever be a mother to six children: Bradley, Austin, Brayden, Alexis, Cameron, and Davis. I sometimes daydream what it'd be like to have all 6 here. Life would be crazy but oh so blessed.<br />
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I'm rambling. I'm sorry. There is so much I want to say, and I can't type fast enough to keep up with my thoughts. This blog is such a source of healing for me, because not everyone can handle talking about it. I love when someone can handle it though, because it helps so much. Grief is something that I don't wish on anyone and yet know that everyone will experience it on some level in their life. I pray though that no one has to experience the grief of losing a child. We just aren't built for this. One person described our journey as being "thrown a curve ball." And, that frustrates me because until you experience the loss of a child you truly have no idea.. . I really try to remind myself that people sometimes just don't think things through before they say them and sometimes make absent minded comments. I describe it more like the pitcher hitting the batter. That is probably the best analogy to describe the hurt and emotions that we've experienced if you stick to the baseball analogies. I say we aren't built for it- but what we are built for is to lean on God and we've done just that. We've leaned, cried, screamed, been carried, etc over the last 3 years. And, perhaps this was God's will because he wanted us to learn to FULLY rely on Him. I'm not sure I'll ever know what the reason is for all this- maybe in Heaven, but maybe in Heaven it won't matter. Perhaps we will be so busy worshipping God and fully enjoying that- that all hurt will be erased forever from our minds. <br />
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So, it's November. An absolutely beautiful time of year. I love the fall. So much to do and you get to see God's beauty everyday during autumn. .. . ~ deep blue skies ~ gorgeous autumn leaves in hues of orange, yellow, and red ~the cool breeze is so refreshing. Then, there are all the wonderful things like warm fires and hot chocolate that warm our souls as we prepare for the holiday season. A special time to make memories with family picking apples, the SC State Fair, picking pumpkins, trick-or-treating, college football, and just enjoying the nice weather as a family fills our calendar every year during fall. So, we're always assured that God will fill our heart with many good thoughts before, during, and after this hard month. God is so good! I'm so thankful for our awesome God who made the ultimate sacrifice for us, my wonderful husband and life partner in every way, and my six beautiful children.What do you have to be thankful for?The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-47157108918749339142011-10-27T16:05:00.000-04:002011-10-27T16:05:58.897-04:00Christmas ShoppingYes, I've already started our Christmas shopping. About a month ago I did some shopping on Amazon. Worked out great- free shipping, arrives in a couple of days, and oh. so. easy. . I L.O.V.E. Internet shopping, especially with the fact that we have 4 children 5 and under . . . 3 of which are under 3! :-) Anyway, I have my little spreadsheet in Excel that has all the kid's names and what they're getting. Helps for several reasons:<br />
1. Reminds me what I've gotten, if for some reason everything isn't in the same spot when it comes time to wrap or put out on Christmas Eve.<br />
2. Helps make sure everything is equal cost wise, because we do believe in that. We love them (the kids) all the same right?!?! And, it isn't hard to do. So, why not?<br />
3. We give each child 3 presents and a stocking, then they get one combined present from their siblings. The other siblings get to pick it out- it will be more fun as they grow older. Then, they exchange the presents on Christmas Eve- great tradition and wasn't started Austin's 1st Christmas at home. Not sure if I wrote last year about the 3 presents, but we hope it will help our children remember the reason for the season. Our children get so much from all 3 sets of grandparents, aunt/uncles, friends, etc.. . so we just don't want their memory of the holidays to be all about the massive number of presents. So, the spreadsheet helps me make sure everyone has the same number as well.<br />
4. Then, I also lists the other people we buy for and list what they're getting as well. I try to keep all the grandparents equal as well as our nieces/nephew.<br />
So my spreadsheet may be a little crazy, but it really helps me stay organized and with 4 little ones that is absolutely necessary. :-) <br />
So, yes I've started shopping and not too far away form being done. Want to know what other awesome website I'm using? <a href="http://www.zulily.com/invite/lwicker522">Zulily</a> It's pretty cool. Everyday at 9am they have a new lists of deals in housewares, personalized items, kids and women's attire, books, toys etc. Most everything has been a good deal. Then, you buy it . . . tax free, ship it, and it arrives on your doorstep with no hassle. I use paypal to pay which is another awesome site, but you may also just use a credit card, which is what paypal is- I just don't have to take the time to type in my info over and over. So, check out the link and see what you find. How awesome would it be to finish your shopping before Thanksgiving, so you can sit back, worship God, and just enjoy the holidays with your family?!??! By the way, their is a free app for the site on my phone- too cool when I can exercise and shop at the same time? It's all about multi tasking these days.The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-11877646162861026152011-10-13T09:07:00.008-04:002011-10-13T09:26:00.421-04:00Mommy "Down" Time<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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So, when these precious little things aren't taking up every minute and I need some ME time I've been checking out this new found obsession: <a href="http://pinterest.com/lhwicker/">Pinterest</a>! It's very cool. It has everything from crafts to recipes, holiday ideas, fun stuff for the kids, decorating tips, and I've even found some great exercises on there to help get me back in shape. Chris and I've been on there hunting for ideas for the new house, and it has given us some fun couple, quality time together day dreaming. :-) <a href="http://pinterest.com/lhwicker/">Pinterest</a> is a virtual pin board that allows people to post something cool they found on the Internet to this one home site. Then, your friends can copy the idea to their boards to keep. You can sync the website with Facebook, Google, Twitter, etc to find your friends or you can go on the main board and look at people's, that you don't know, pins. It's a pretty cool concept. However, I have to limit my time on there or else I could spend waaaaayy TOO much time on the site. Enjoy!</div>The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-46771385825367056232011-10-11T16:36:00.000-04:002011-10-11T16:36:11.526-04:00TWO monthsYes, it has been over 2 months since I posted my last post. And, I'm so sorry but life is very busy and I'm just trying to soak in these moments to remember for the rest of my life. Davis Matthew arrived on July 29th a healthy 8 pounds 1 ounce and 20.75 inches. He was our biggest baby at only 37 weeks (no that isn't early, but he was our earliest term baby so I didn't expect him to be that big). However, the ultrasonographer warned that he would be big the day before- and I should have known to trust this woman because she is awesome! Davis did great with absolutely no issues at birth. The delivery at Lexington was awesome and truly a wonderful way for us to finish off our family. . . yes I just said that. . . yes, I'm crazy and saddened by it becasue we were planning to shoot for #5 before we finished off our bunch. However, we can't say for sure that God won't bring another child into our hearts another way. There were complications, with me, during the delivery involving uterine windows that were close to uterine rupture, scar tissue, and hemorrahging from the uterine arteries. The doctor also had trouble closing up my uterus (getting the stitches to hold), so it bought me a night with close monitoring in L&D and the suggestion to not have anymore kids if I wanted to be around to raise them. It's rather hard to come to terms with when you aren't allowed to make the decision on your own, but we're enjoying our 4 children that God has given us to raise and trying to make the most of every moment. I'm praying that God gives us peace about it and that this was just his BIG way to say that no more children were going to come from our bodies. We've been blessed beyond meausre to have bore SIX children and it's absolutely amazing to watch these 4 together. I have to say that I LOVE having 4 kids. It's awesome and definitely fufills the desire that God has always placed in our hearts. <br />
The last 2 months has been a whirlwind of sleep deprivation, fun, and craziness- but all in wonderful ways. Davis has grown exponentially regardless of the protein allergies that all of our babies have. His started later than any of the others, but alas it reared it's ugly head. I was able to nurse him for a month and tried the dairy free diet, but every day that passed with the diet he worsened leading us to believe that he also had a soy protein allergy. That diet would be almost impossible for me to do, take in enough calories to nurse, with our busy lives of having 4 children. At Davis' well visit he was in the 95% for his height and weight at 24+ inches and over 13 pounds. Yay! I love big babies with all their sweet rolls. He moved to his room to start sleeping at night and for some naps last week when he was almost 10 weeks old. And, has improved a lot with his sleep. He is putting him to sleep for naps as well as at bedtime at night. He sleeps most night till 3am and then will go again to 6am on a good night. And, then gets up for good at about 730. His naps are about an hour long and are frequently throughtout the day- some in his crib and some in the swing downstairs. <br />
The bigger kids have adjusted well to our new addition. Bradley started school when Davis was 2 weeks old. And, the whole family has done great on our new "early" schedule. School has been good for Bradley as well as the rest of the family. I'll have to talk more about school later. Austin and Cameron have a lot of fun playing together during the day. We've been busy with Bradley's soccer, Chris' work, and getting our house ready to sale. Yes, we always have so much going on. We love our neighborhood and neighbors so much, but it's time to move on to a house that better fits our big family. AKA bigger laundry room, a mudroom, no wasted space such as a study/living room, and 2 bathrooms for the kids instead of the one with only one sink. The house may even be a little smaller than our current one. We meet with the designer in a couple of weeks. Chris and I have started to diet- more like make a lifestyle change and eat healthier. We're eating at home almost all the time at dinner and that has been good as well. We also have started serving the kids the same meal we're having. The 2 middle one have been very receptive to it, but the big one NOT. SO. MUCH. He is sooo picky. I hope he will come around eventually; until then he just has to be hungry until the next morning. No worries though as he is still maintaining his weight somehow. He is served whole milk and we be sure that they all have fruit as well. <br />
There is a lot more going on around here too- plans for pumpkin and apple picking, the fair, the zoo, picnics, and walks. We've enjoyed the wonderful fall weather with lots of time outdoors. I've started exercising again and it's WONDERFUL. I still have a lot of work to do, but I'm just happy to be trying. We have birthdays coming up: Daddy and Austin. So, there is party planning going on. Halloween and the holidays are right around the corner, and we've started Christmas shopping. LOVE this time of year, and we get to enjoy it with our newest little blessing and well as the other 3!. Can't get any better than that. Just wanted to let everyone know that we are alive and well. Sorry this is so quick, but more WILL come later!<br />The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-72063365695078232772011-07-28T16:32:00.000-04:002011-07-28T16:32:14.642-04:00Tomorrow!The BIG day is almost here! ONE more night. I think I can make it! This pregnancy has been great, but lately I can barely pick up the kids- which is a must when they are so young like Austin and Cameron. The swelling and ligament pain (which I'm told gets worse with each pregnancy) is limiting me a lot these days. However, I've made it and am just rolling with the punches. <br />
I have a ton of things I want to do before going to bed tonight, so this will be a short and sweet update. I'm delivering tomorrow at LMC (yes that is a change for us, but an exciting one after going through so many hard things at Richland). I'm scheduled for noon and hopefully Davis will be out by 1- it took a long time for my high risk OB to get to Cameron due to scar tissue- hoping the ligament pain is actually that and not scar tissue. I had my last appointment today and Davis looked well. He is measuring very big; 97% and 8 pounds 10 ounces. This is just an estimate, after taking several measurements, and not actually guaranteed and could be 10% off either way. I'm expecting him to be 7 something as B was 7lb 5 oz and C was 7lbs 2 oz, both delivered at 38 weeks. Davis will be a few days earlier than them too.<br />
So, we have a babysitter lined up for the other kids and Chris will be with them the rest of the time. I'm praying ABC handle Mama being away well since I'm always with them- praying I handle it well too since I feel like my place is at home with my family. I know it will be for just a few days and a must to get this sweet miracle here and home, and we can make it past anything for a short time. Emotions are running a little high as well as anxiety. I keep trying to push everything out of my mind and ask God for His peace and grace as I know that is the only place it can come from. <br />
Update on everyone else. . . I pick up B's school class assignment later today. He starts school in just a few weeks which I'm anticipating to be a bigger change for our family than adding Baby Davis. Bradley seems excited, but a little hesitant as expected. He isn't much of a worrier, because I've just always told him to not worry and ask God for help- and so far that has worked. He truly believe everything I tell him- so scary how children can be molded and shaped by us so easily. Bradley is very excited about the baby. A is talking all the time. He has so much to say, and sometimes it's all I can do not to just stare and marvel at how well he is doing. He hasn't grown, but that is just how Austin is. His tonsils could be causing issues with that, and his ENT is setting him up for a sleep study. He has a feeling Austin's tonsils are causing some breathing difficulty at night even though the pulse ox study showed he was fine. A sleep study on Austin won't be an easy task though, so many prayers needed for that. Austin is also really growing up from a toddler to a little boy, and it's so hard to believe. His little sister is growing up as well from a baby to a toddler. C has been walking for awhile and uses that as her sole transportation now. She signs a lot and really understands what we are saying to her. She is saying new words everyday as well. She has been very easy to discipline, and while she may cry when we tell her "no", she does listen. She continues to be a great eater and will beg for a salad which I've always loved as well. Her hair is really growing and getting thick, so I have to keep some type of barrette in her hair to keep it out of her face. I just can't believe how much "ABC" have grown over the summer and am so excited to add "D" to the mix. <br />
I'm not sure how long it will be before something is posted here, so if you are on Facebook look me up and add me as a friend if you haven't already. We will post to there rather quickly since it's so easy. Thank you all for the prayers!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-20115438398423282772011-07-17T15:50:00.000-04:002011-07-17T15:50:55.087-04:00Showered with BlessingsRight before Father's Day my sweet friend, Michelle, gave me a wonderful little shower to help celebrate Baby Davis. I was very excited to see all of my favorite girls and hang out a little bit before Davis arrives. We went to <a href="http://www.miyos.com/m-vista/">M Vista</a>, downtown, and it was very yummy. We enjoyed appetizers, salads, and delicious meals. Then, our waiter surprised me with a delicisous chocolate mousse dessert that reminded me of cheesecake. And, we also enjoyed a very tasty cake. Michelle thought of every little detail to make it special inclucding sweet, little bags of surprises full of chocolate for everyone to take home. After dessert I opened a ton of presents that I'm very grateful for- lots of diapers, wipes, new clothes for Davis, and much more. All of it will definitely come in handy! Our boy stuff is getting worn out and is the wrong season since Bradley and Austin came home in March. After presents we took some group pictures, so I can always remember what a great time I had celebrating our sweet blessing with a few family and lots of friends! Thank you everyone for making sure that even after 5 kids, # 6, is just as special as #1! He is one blessed little boy!<br />
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So, I was just going to give you a glimpse into what it takes to get one cute picture. I was home alone with the kids, getting ready for swim lessons on the last day. They were very excited and running around with their bathing suits on- that yes, coordinated. Hey, if I have to buy clothes then I may as well buy them stuff that matches- makes it easier to keep up with them when we're off too- because I know exactly what colors to look for if someone tries to run off and I'm constantly going down the alphabet making sure everyone is accountable for- just the mommy in me! :-)<br />
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Take 1- Gave A the sunglasses to make him happy, put the bow in C's hair, and told Bradley to hold her . . . it's a NO GO. Let's try again. . . </div>
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Told the boys to pay attention, told B not to hold C this time, put her beside B, and grabbed the camera. Then, look who decides to lie down- no go again folks. Again?</div>
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Finally the boys are smiling and looking- so cute, but what is C looking at?</div>
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Almost! Where is C's bow though?!?!? The boys are saying, "cheese". Good news, A has started to improve a lot with pictures just in time for C to go through a bad picture phase. She does well if it's just her, and I can focus on only her. And, realize I actually took about 20 pictures on this day- this is just a glimpse for you into the chaos. It's fun though. And, we were all ready early. Loaded up in the car and off we went to swim lessons. More to come on that later!</div>The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-53070671664207044842011-06-06T23:44:00.000-04:002011-06-06T23:44:01.453-04:00L & D TripYesterday, I was having some issues. Some pressure down low, frequent urination (but no burning like a uti- the pressure was causing it), was fine when I laid down for the most part, but when I stood for more than a few minutes I'd have this sharp sensation that would cause me to double over because it felt like I was going to pee on myself. Davis wasn't moving as much as usual. He was breach a couple of weeks ago and my other babies have never been in that position this late. So, for a couple of weeks now I haven't felt like I was emptying my bladder, getting up several times a night to go "potty", and having frequent kicks to the bladder . . . and while I've become to grow accustomed to that it was very different yesterday. It felt like the baby was kicking or hitting this nerve that was directly attached to my bladder and it was quite uncomfortable- he seemed lower too. So, after fighting it all day I called the on call doctor which turned out to be the OB that delivered the triplets. She advised me to go to Richland, get on the monitor, and get everything checked out due to my history. So, we made our way up there - all the while trying NOT to be sick to our stomachs as the possibility that I may not be going back home with this sweet baby still in my tummy but all along thinking SURELY after this many children and pregnancies I'd know if something were really long- and just the thought of that place and our history there it's surprising that we are able to not empty everything in our stomachs when entering those halls. I'd hoped that after a good delivery with Cameron and it being 2.5 years since we were there living in what we thought was pure hell that things would be improved. W.R.O.N.G. Turns out post-traumatic stress disorder, which is the only way to really describe our emotions at Palmetto Health Richland, never truly goes away- just goes silent until you have to go through the motions of what caused it in the 1st place. <br />
I was monitored, prodded, and cathed- AND after 4 long hours sent back home. Everything looked great. They aren't really sure what was causing the issues- could be his position or could be scar tissue from past c-sections pulling as my uterus grows. It has been better today- still there but some improvement thankfully. I was scheduled to go to the doctor this week anyway for an Ob appointment and another ultrasound, so I'll still do that. I don't have anymore restrictions and am free to do whatever I was doing before. Praying I have another few more weeks of pregnancy before I end up there again. Everyone loves a full term baby, but Chris and I just say we'll be happy to get past 32 weeks- which is a little over a week from now- you don't have to worry about eye and ear issues and things are just overall much, much better than what we went through with Austin. Less than 6 weeks to go until Davis is full term. Yay! So thankful everything looked good, and we're still going strong!<br />
On a fun note, a sweet friend is giving me a shower next week and I'm sooo excited and blessed by my wonderful friends. I was so blown away, after having so many children, that anyone would even think to give me one. She sweetly told me that everyone can use diapers and wipes and since Davis is being born in a totally different season than my other children he'll need some clothes and other things that may be worn out or you can't pass down. So, after yesterday there is no reason to think that I won't still be "truckin' along" and can enjoy it. Hope everyone can make it! And, thank you, thank you, thank you Michelle for continuing to be such a blessing in my life!<br />
That's all folks!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-13694968223700312402011-06-02T11:02:00.000-04:002011-06-02T11:02:59.606-04:00PoemFound this poem. We have another poem written by this father of quads, <a href="http://www.preemiebabies101.com/jolly-old-st-nicu/">Jolly Old St NICU</a>, given to us on Austin's first Christmas by my brother and sister-in-law. It was right after we'd lost our 2 youngest children and Austin was in the NICU for what we knew would be a long time after already being there for over a month. We were all too familiar with the NICU at that point and the poem hit so close to home. <br />
So, the other day I found this poem written by this same man. Like I said he is the father of quads, but only 3 remain on Earth. He wrote this poem for his daughter, Emily, that went to be with God around the age of 1 month old. It speaks volumes for mine and Chris' emotions. They still continue to be all over the place, some good days and some bad days. We struggle with do we just be happy that our children are safe in Heaven or is it ok to wish that they were here with us? <br />
Christopher Brayden and Alexis Faith, not a day goes by that Daddy and Mama don't think of you several times a day. We have faith in our Lord that we will see you again and be with our Heavenly Father and you for all of eternity. We strive daily to live right while continuing to believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross for us so that we may have everlasting life. As your oldest brother says, "We have Jesus in our heart." I don't think there is any other way to make it past this journey than to have full trust in God's plan. We believe in His awesome grace and strength, seeing that He will carry us through anything- the things we do or don't want to believe that we could make it through. That being said, we are humans and not fully able to understand why we were placed on Earth to go through something like this- what we believe has to be the hardest thing that any human ever has to go through.<br />
I recently spoke to a fellow mother of a micro preemie. Her son is 5 now, but has celebrated every birthday with Jesus. She said she has the same feelings- you learn to cope with the loss, but still miss them as desperately as you did the day they passed if not more. I believe I miss them more now than I did then, because as time passes it has been that much longer since I held my children in my arms. Can you fathom not being able to hold your child in your arms for almost 2.5 years? Another mother, I know, lost her infant son 20-something years ago. She said not one day goes by that she doesn't think of him and miss all the memories that she was never able to make. She isn't sure that ever gets any easier. This poem, that I'm sharing, depicts our emotions so well. While we are grateful that our children are safe with our Lord, and continue to live life enjoying all of our many blessings- we still continue to feel as though something is missing as the minutes, hours, days, and weeks go by. <br />
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<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>Even if you’re dancing with King David</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even if you touch the Savior’s Face</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even if you walk right next to Abraham</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>In a world that’s marked by joy and peace and grace….</strong></span></em><br />
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<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even though our lives are filled with laughter</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even though we celebrate each day</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even though we can’t believe how good things are</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>In this life that’s oh so rich in every way…</strong></span></em><br />
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<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even if our longing makes no sense to you</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even if you know no death or pain</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even if you’re happy every moment</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>In a place where all life’s problems leave no stain…</strong></span></em><br />
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<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even though we’ve had some time to catch our breath</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even though death’s sting does start to leave</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even though the future seems so bright to us</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>In this dwelling where it seems so odd to grieve…</strong></span></em><br />
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<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even if you’re smiling down upon us now</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even if you wait with open arms</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even if the thought of time seems foolish</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>In that realm that’s free from all our cares and harms…</strong></span></em><br />
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<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>Oh, even though we speak of you with fondness</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even though we proudly say your name</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>And even though we send your kisses skyward</strong></span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>One heartfelt thought still lingers all the same…</strong></span></em><br />
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<em><span style="color: #0b5394;"><strong>We just miss holding you</strong></span></em><br />
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–written by Daddy, 12/31/06, after one full calendar year of missing our little girl<br />
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How can anyone not look at a baby and think about how wonderful and gracious God is? What a a miracle a new life is? How every child is brought here by God for a purpose? And, all in His will? <br />
Well, that is what all I think when I see my precious new one's face. I had a 3D ultrasound at my appointment on Monday, and it was by far the best one yet. Such a clear picture. . .however, he didn't want to uncover his face and only gave us a small peak at his mouth and nose. He favors 2 people in our family of 5, and I'm so excited about it.<br />
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Everything looked good with Davis. MCA velocity is still in the 'C' range and cervix looked great. I go back in 2 weeks to recheck all of that. They didn't measure him this time, but they did measure the amniotic fluid which looked good as well. We saw him practice breathing too. My OB is actually leaving and moving away, so I was able to see him one more time. I'm sad to see him go, because he took over my care at about 20 weeks with the triplets and has been my OB ever since. He has definitely been a God send, but I'm in good hands with the other high-risk OB who is also an MFM (maternal fetal specialist). These 2 are the only ones in town, so it's great that I'll just be able to be transferred from one to the other. I'll still be able to contact my current OB if I have any questions, so that is very comforting. He was a huge support to Chris and I after we delivered the triplets, is always so positive and encouraging, and I'm just so thankful that God placed him in our life. He is excited to see how well I'm doing this time. We spoke about my not having diabetes yet, and he said that the next few weeks will show whether or not I'm going to have it this time. The hormone that causes gestational diabetes spikes again in the next few weeks, so if I make it past 32 weeks with no problem then I'm in the clear!!! YAY! How amazing is that?!?! People might be tired of me talking about it . . . but, I just never ever dreamed, when I felt God telling me it was time to have another baby (when I felt I wasn't quite ready yet due to already having 2 pregnancies back to back and this would make the 3rd pregnancies in 3 years) and that he'd take care of any worries that I had, that he'd do something about my diabetes. Not only has he taken away my bigger fears of a micro-preemie and other issues I've had in the past, kept this antibody thing quiet and not causes issues yet, but he has seemingly cured me of diabetes this time. WOW! It's just so amazing and continues to amaze the doctors. No one ever questioned it- it was just a given that I'd have diabetes, be on insulin, but we knew after dealing with it 3 prior times that it'd be ok and just cause some inconveniences. I'm still going to have weekly biophysical profiles (ultrasounds that rate several things from 1-10), non stress test, and OB appointments due to my history and the antibody issue, but that is fine with us- we'd rather be safe than sorry and ensure this little guy is doing well. Those will start in the next few weeks.<br />
Sounds great to say nine weeks and some days left to go until we meet this little boy face-to-face!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-20985447667465661942011-05-20T22:40:00.000-04:002011-05-20T22:40:25.048-04:00Maniac May<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Look at the beautiful blue eyes! I know I'm a little partial, but we think that we have been blessed with the 2 most gorgeous girls ever! Cameron finally got her 1st top tooth this week at 14 months old. I was beginning to wonder if she had top teeth. And, she only has 3 bottom teeth. It's better to get them later, but the teething thing is getting a little old. :-)</div>
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Austin hates for his picture to be taken (perhaps bc I took so many in the NICU or the bright lights remind him of the NICU???.) However, on this day I managed to capture his fun loving, silly personality when he was rocking in Cameron's rocker. He was saying, "rock, rock" which in the last week he has begun to say short sentences. He often says, " I love chocolate" or " I want apple" (he calls all fresh produce apple) or " I need a bottle". We're so excited about his expanding speech and vocabulary. Another favorite word is "Michael" which is Austin's and Chris' middle names, but he hears it most often with his uncle/my brother. He even tells people that is his name, he'll say, " no, I Miii chaeel" if someone asks if his name is Austin with the cutest little southern drawl. </div>
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LOVE having a "big" family as people describe us- seems to be the bigger the family the closer they are!</div>
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And, since I haven't taken the time to scan in an ultrasound picture of the newest addition I figured I'd post a picture of my belly. 28 weeks! Yay. I go Monday for my next ultrasound, and I'm hoping they will do another 3D ultrasound. The last one he was looking like Bradley and Cameron, so I'm excited to see who he will favor. And, I continue to be so amazed of God's miracles- no diabetes! It continues to blow all the doctor's minds. They say it may still come, but when I spot check my sugar it is actually improving. Wow- when I felt God telling me to give it to Him about whether or not we should have another baby I NEVER dreamed he'd take care of my diabetes!</div>
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May has been a very busy month for us. Parties, showers, birthday parties, a BBQ, a dedication, a cookout, and the month still isn't over yet. It has been fun hanging out with our friends so much. We're very blessed with our many friends that offer so much love and support! They just continue to go above and beyond, and we're so grateful for God giving us these brothers and sisters in Christ. Next week we have 2 therapy appointments for Austin, my OB appointment, Bradley and I are going to the dentist, Bradley's graduation, our 10 year anniversary, Bradley's last day of school, and we're having family pictures taken too. Chris is off, a couple of days, for our anniversary and to make up for him working the holiday weekend. Then, on Memorial Day we're planning to enjoy some fun in the sun!</div>
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<a href="http://www.ritasice.com/">Rita's Ice</a><br />
There is one on Harbison Boulevard and one at Sandhills. And, actually this is a chain, so they are throughout SC and the United States. Very yummy, special treat for our family. Italian Ice and Custard are among their specialties. Chris and Austin enjoyed chocolate custard, which is a lot like soft serve ice cream, but more tasty. Bradley had cherry ice. And, I had a <a href="http://www.ritasice.com/cool-treats/menu/blendini.aspx">Blendini</a>. They have different ice flavors everyday, and a lot of them are fruit flavored and such a nice light treat. The Blendini mixes ice, custard, and a mix-in. So, I had Smores Ice, Chocolate Custard with Health mixed in - and everyone in our family enjoyed it.</div>
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This is something new that will run the 2nd and 4th Saturday from June through October. They're having a kick-off tomorrow, Saturday May 21st. You can view more information at the link above or search for it on Facebook. We're looking forward to checking out the local produce as well as the other things they will offer such as plants and crafts. It will be from 9am-1pm on Main Street, in the vacant lot where Sessions used to be. It should be something fun for the family, and we're hoping everyone will support the local farms. I bet the produce will be very yummy.</div>
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</div>The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-61831413723764707092011-05-11T17:18:00.000-04:002011-05-11T17:18:52.792-04:00Another Week, Another AppointmentI had another OB appointment today with an ultrasound. Baby Davis looks great. I'm 26 weeks, 4 days, and he measured almost 28 weeks at 2.5lbs and almost the 70th percent. So, a little big but that is nothing unusual with our babies. I'm still measuring 4 weeks ahead by fundal height. My cervix measurement was good- yay! And, the MCA velocity is in the C range- almost a D- which is awesome. Fluid was good. Everything was awesome with the baby.<br />
Everything looked good with me as well. Weight gain is good and blood pressure is perfect. I'm always very blessed with hanging out between 90-100/ 60 -50. Yay! Great appointment, and I go back in less than 2 weeks. <br />
On another note, Chris and I have to figure something out with the cars. We can't fit all 3 kids in his car, so I had to drive 15-20 minutes out of the way to switch out cars on my way to my appointment. I had to have the van this morning to take Bradley to school this am, and Chris had to have to van to pick Bradley up from school. I had convinced Chris that there was no need to have 2 cars to fit the entire family, but I'm not so sure about that decision now. What does everyone else do? And, then we'll have one more child in a few months. We also run into problems with childcare during the weekday. We don't have the option of daycare, so I guess that is why these are issues. I want someone who is around the kids a lot and is comfortable with them and they're comfortable with- and everyone knows everyone well. In the next month I'll start going to the doctor weekly, and we won't be able to work around Chris' off days. And, today Chris was at the extended care longer than normal- it was a little hectic to say the least. It's all over now though for today. We'll see how things go with my next appointment.The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458840022484003779.post-12211921810355526852011-05-06T15:12:00.000-04:002011-05-06T15:12:22.359-04:00Crazy Mom BrainThings that go through my mind during an average naptime:<br />
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<strong><u>SICK VISIT</u></strong> Took Austin and Cameron to the doctor yesterday, because they've had runny noses for a couple of weeks on and off. This week they both started coughing. Austin has been requiring nebulizer treatments while Cameron just seems miserable. Thankfully, they just had sinus infections and Austin also has an ear infection. Cool. I'm being serious. They are easily treatable and the best part is Austin's lungs are CLEAR! So, antibiotics for both the little ones and a few more days of treatments for Austin- easy and I can handle that! Austin's tonsils are still huge, but he did well with the sleep study. So, that means NO ENT will touch this kid until he is at least 3 to think about removing them, because Austin is Austin afterall. With his history and lung disease they just don't want to do anything until absolutely necessary. The pediatrician does think they interfere with his weight gain. He continues to gain a little then lose it and repeats. Yesterday he only weighed 21 pounds 10 ounces while his "little" sister is hanging out at 25 pounds. However, he continues to stay on his little weight curve, so no one is going to mess with things at this point. Austin really needs to grow, so his lungs can maximize this important time. A child's lungs continue to get new growth and regenerate until they are 6- the more he grows, the more they grow. So, if you could be praying for that we'd appreciate it very much!<br />
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<u><strong>DAVIS</strong></u><br />
Only a max of 13 weeks till the little guy makes his arrival! Yay! I've got to get going on that nursery and some major reorganization with the kid's stuff. Currently I use that room for majority of the boy's clothes- basically because it's unused so I can- it has been nice to be able to put away their clean clothes when they're sleeping, clean out too small stuff, put away new things, and see what they need etc. It has spoiled me. I have to pick out bedding for this boy. Good thing is he doesn't have to have it to come home- he won't sleep in there anyway for about 8 weeks, but it would be nice to have it done and ready. I had an appointment and ultrasound last week and will have another next week. All looked well. The MCA Velocity did creep up the chart and is on the C/B border now which just means they have to check things at least every 10-14 days. My cervix still looked great via ultrasound. My OB said that as far as he is concerned that I passed my 3 hour Glucola test, and I'm NOT diabetic this pregnancy. However, with my history I should continue to spot check things every couple of days. He said it almost seems as if I'm hypoglycemic since my 3 hour dropped in the very dangerous range (32- is normally a coma range- thank goodness I recognized the signs and carb overloaded- totally a God thing that I didn't pass out and go unconscious.). No one knows what this all means. It's a little weird, but I'm followed so much that we will all keep close tabs on it and see what happens. Everything else looks good- no high amniotic fluid yet like last time either. But, I'm measuring 4 weeks ahead. They haven't measured Davis in awhile, so they're guessing he has really grown- by the looks of my belly I believe it! I was excited to see that I've only gained 15lbs in 24 weeks- that is incredible for me and the doctor said that while he would tell someone my size to gain at least 40 he is OK with it because Davis is growing well. And, that I should gain at least a pound a week from here and probably more, so as long as I do that he is fine with it. To think I could gain only 30 pounds is amazing to me since I always hit over 50! :-) I guess that is what having 3 small children will do for you.<br />
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<u><strong>THIS HOUSE</strong></u><br />
Renovation costs came back more than we were willing to invest in this house. It will still only give us one bathroom for four children and no we aren't sure we are "done" at this point either- that is in God's hands! I think that is doable. . . Chris not so much . . .I never had to share a bathroom with a sibling. . . we both agree that they all don't need their own bathroom or bedroom for that matter...and really it'd be good for them to share a bathroom with at least one person. We have things that we want/need to do to this house. The yard is a mess. Some rooms have never been painted besides that blah, creme, builder paint. Nor do all the rooms have curtains and one particular room is fairly empty and bare. There is so much wasted space in this house that is really a little more formal than our taste these days. And, one day I'm going to be take a sledge hammer to the laundry room ( more like closet) because it drives me crazy. There are 5 people that need clean laundry- one child vomits enough to make the dirty laundry of what 2 adults do and the little one is the messiest eater and often has at least 2 baths a day and makes enough laundry for 2 kids. What shall we do? So, just praying about God's will with all of it. We're blessed with some awesome neighbors, great location, and more- so very thankful for all of that.<br />
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<strong><u>BRADLEY</u></strong> <br />
Bradley is growing up. He brought home his cap and gown pictures the other day. He will graduate preschool at the end of the month, Chris and my TEN year anniversary by the way. He looked so old and handsome in his pictures. I had to pick out a baby picture to send to school for the graduation ceremony. And, it was so bittersweet. What a sweet baby he still is, but when I look at him I see that 6 month old that just tugged at my heart string with every little smile. It used to just be the 2 of us most days and nights. Chris worked incredibly long hours as a resident, so Bradley and I were alone all the time. We had lots of play dates and went on lots of walks- spent tons of time outdoors. It was a fun and special time. I can't imagine life without my 5 other children, but I'm still grateful that I was able to invest all of my time in Bradley. It has shaped him to be such a secure, caring, well- rounded little boy. And, now he can teach his siblings all of the wonderful traits he has been blessed with. On the way home, yesterday, he told me to look at him after being quiet for awhile. So, I looked in the rear view mirror all the way to the 3rd row as that is where he is now in the car. And, he had found Chris' baseball hat and was sipping on his drink from lunch just smiling. I caught a glimpse of what he will look like as a teenager- then he said, "I love you Mama". MELT. MY. HEART!!!<br />
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<strong><u>MY "TWINS"</u></strong><br />
Everywhere we go people ask if Austin and Cameron are twins. It's constant. Then, we say no and then they ask how far apart they are and don't believe they are actually 15 months apart (they think less)- if they inquire more then I explain that Austin was 4 months premature and that they are developmentally and by due date only 12 months apart. Austin only has a couple of inches on Cameron. And, if they're both in the highchairs, being carried, or in the stroller then it's isn't obvious that one moves around a lot better than the other. It's kinda cool, because I always wanted twin. Then again it's a little sad, because I should be able to say something like "no, these 3 are triplets." Is this all in God's plans? I'm not sure. Will Davis coming make it look like I have triplets on Earth? Not too sure, but I do wonder. Does it matter? Heck no, because I love all these kids so very much- my mind just wonders some days. It will be pretty awesome this time next year having a 6 year old, 3 year old, 2 year old and almost 1 year old! So crazy blessed! <br />
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<strong><u>FLOWERS</u></strong><br />
I received flowers from my husband and all six children yesterday. I was very excited, and they're beautiful! It was pretty cool to see all of my children's names filling up the card. Thank you Sweetie!<br />
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<strong><u>OUR YARD</u></strong><br />
We've been planting more things in the yard to fill in the bare spots. Chris is still working to complete the storage building and lean to part that covers his lawnmower. We still need to get all the weeds, in the flower beds, controlled and gone. Then, it will be time to put down new much and pine straw.<br />
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Then, there is our daily Bible Studies, and that Chris and I have thought about starting a home group. My mind wonders over to thinking of what couples/families would be interested. Would we want to keep the focus on families and children? <br />
TV is another big thing- Austin is addicted to TV and pitches a fit when he wants it on in the car especially. I hate the TV and try to keep their exposure to TV and video games (Bradley is the only one playing video games so far due to age) to a max of 10 hours a week (per recommendation of the AAP- American Academy of Pediatrics). The thing with Austin pitching a fit is I can't quite ignore it like I can with the other 2, because he crying leads to coughing that leads to gagging and ultimately throwing up. However, he has become very interested in books lately so I've been giving him books in the car and so far it has worked well. We were in the car a long time yesterday, going to the doctor across town, and I got to enjoy music. Yay!<br />
Special occasions . . . lots of showers, birthdays and more this month. 2 showers, 3 other parties, Mother's Day, a dedication, a few birthday parties, a preschool graduation, and the list goes on and on. <br />
Coupons and cooking at home. We're still using Southern Savers to save some money and still cooking at home as much as possible. Some days I don't feel like cooking, but we're trying to avoid eating out as much as possible- good for the hips, good for the pocketbook, and good for our family. <br />
Ahhh, and my mind keeps going but I won't bore you anymore. It really runs when the house is quiet, and I'm thinking of all the things that I want/need to do. Have a great weekend!The Wicker Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02920086308889625392noreply@blogger.com0